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"Courage is Fear walking"

 

 

 

 

 

 

"Therapy beings when I stop blaming and start taking responsibility."

 

 

 

 

 

 

"Three main tenants of Gestalt therapy are self awareness, self acceptance and self responsibility"

 

 

 

"Taking risks is the major
part of the ‘cure’.
So don’t hope that you
will be able to avoid it."

 

 

 
 
 

 
Systemic Constellations - Family and Organisational Constellations
 

Revealing hidden dynamics, thereby enabling the disentanglement and healing of relationships

   
Date: Friday 27th 5pm - 9pm and Saturday 28th November 2009, 9am to 5pm
Bookings: Bookings and deposit required by November 6, 2009
Please contact Maria Dolenc on 0425 277 279
Email: mariadolenc@optusnet.com.au
   
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Despite their greatest efforts many people are not able either to live their life fully or relate well within their families. They can experience powerful forces that thwart them in their lives. They can feel as entangled within the dynamics of their family as if in a spider’s web. These dynamics are like the wind. The wind is not visible but its presence felt from the disturbance it leaves in its wake and it’s impact on our body and senses.

Entanglements in family dynamics can result in relationship difficulties between partners, between parents and children, and between siblings. They can also contribute to other difficulties such as addictions, illnesses and negative repetitive patterns in our lives.

When we think psychologically we normally attribute these problems to negative attitudes or our upbringing. Yet many hours of therapy often does not affect these problems. Twenty five years ago Bert Hellinger developed a method using constellations, to reveal hidden dynamics within the family, which he called "The Orders of Love". When the natural order becomes distorted by external forces such as an early death, the negative entanglements can persist for several generations.

Constellation work is a process by which systemic influences on a person are made visible. In setting up a constellation, a particpant selects people to represent his or her family members and moves them around the room until their relative positions reflect the participants experience of his or her family. When this movement is done silently and with respect, the representatives report experiences similar to those of the original family members. The dynamics of the family relationship can be observed. The facilitator works in a highly respectful manner to bring to awareness blocks that prevent love from flowing to all members of the system.

 
Bert Hellinger
www.family-constellations.org
 
 
 

The Work of Byron Katie is a deeply transformative process of self inquiry that gives people opportunity to approach their problems from a perspective of clarity and inner peace.

The root cause of suffering is identification with our thoughts, the ‘stories’ that are continuously running through our minds. The Work act like a razor-sharp sword that cuts through that illusion and enables you to know for yourself the timeless essence of your being. In a workshop setting we would work with our projection.

 
www.thework.org
 
 
 

Gestalt Therapy is a psychotherapy based on the experiential idea of "here and now" and relationships with others and the environment with a developed theory that combines phenomenological, existential, dialogical, and field approaches to the process of transformation and growth, of human beings.

At the centre of Gestalt Therapy lies the concept of "awareness". People are encouraged to become aware of their own feelings and behaviours, and their effect upon their environment through inquery. The way in which an individual interupts or seeks to avoid contact with their environment is considered to be a substantive factor. By focusing on awareness of themselves as part of reality, new insights and self-healing can occur.

There are a lot of self improvement books that tell you how to change yourself. When you try and change, you manipulate and torture yourself, and mostly you just become divided between a part of you that tries to change and a part of you that resists change

In coming to therapy, one learns greater acceptance, compassion and love for oneself and others. It is about bringing the unconscious or shadow part of oneself to full awareness which then facilitates integration, acceptance and wholeness. It helps the individual develop their own inner support, self responsibility and self acceptance.

Gestalt Therapy is a powerful, direct and creative, while at the same time respectful of the individual’s process and their inner world and what is right for them.

Gestalt Therapy may not help you adjust to society, but instead will show you how to adjust to YOURSELF, to discover your own reality, your own humanness and truth and be more comfortable with it..

It takes great courage to live fully and BE who YOU ARE. Only when you accept who you are –here and now- do you have the opportunity to change!

(Rosner 1987)

 
 
 
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